I have noticed an interesting phenomenon since I returned from Europe…I feel content and am at peace! What a gift this is to me…I know it will fade at some point (probably when school starts), but I want to hold on to it as long as I can…so for the time being, I am very thankful for the blessing of this gift.
So where has this come from? Well, I think God allows us these moments, but I also believe in this particular moment, my contentment is a result of a very fulfilling vacation spent with dear friends. I have often traveled alone – sometimes to exotic, exciting places. In these cases, I have met people along the way with whom I can share my experiences. But this trip was a refreshing change: intentionally traveling and living in community. Sharing living spaces, sharing space in the car, sharing the magnificence of many glorious corners of God’s creation, sharing the amazing taste of the food and so much more. Sharing brings with it its own challenges at times, but it also increases the joys and expands one’s perspective on life. By myself, I am limited to seeing things the ways I’m used to seeing them. Sharing the experience helps me to see someone else’s perspective. This, of course, is quite obvious, but it is made clearer when you travel with others… to notice all the colors of the wild flowers along a mountain path… to see the subtle (and sometimes not so subtle) differences in the interior of a magnificent cathedral; to observe the patience of another which increases your own patience; to have multiple pairs of eyes to find a landmark or sign so you end up on the right road… all of this enhances the experience of travel and the experience of community.
Actually, I think many of us seek after community… and it is something that is often elusive. Sometimes, we attempt to create community using artificial means in our desperate search to feel connected. Sometimes it works; in my experience, often it doesn’t. Part of my lack of community comes because I am just way too busy! The more I think about our trip, even though we traveled many miles and saw many beautiful places; we were not busy to the point that our schedule controlled us. Yes, we had our moments of trying to get all five of us going in the morning, but in the end, it happened when it happened and it was fine…. That is definitely not the way my life normally runs when I am in school! This is a good lesson to absorb! The more I consider this, the more I think my current sense of well-being, contentment and peace are a result of the wonderful communal experience we had; it filled my soul. I am very grateful….